Restraint feels different from touch
A dog may enjoy stroking but dislike arms around the body, feet leaving the floor, or pressure around the chest and abdomen.
History and familiarity matter
Dogs who were not gently introduced to handling, who have experienced rough restraint, or who are new to the home may need a slower progression.
Pain must be considered
Sensitivity around one body area, a sudden change, yelping, reluctance to jump, or stiffness can point to discomfort rather than a training problem.
What to avoid
Keep the response gentle.
Avoid repeatedly lifting the dog to prove that nothing bad will happen.
Safety boundary
When to get more help.
A dog who freezes, growls, snaps, or has bitten during lifting should not be handled by children.